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Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Horoscope

TAURUS MAN
A quiet simple man who can do something unexpected to shock you. Taurus man mostly medium tall, strong with good health, good strong body. When he talks, he likes to turn his head to one side on one direction. His body will be quite straight, facial structures tend to be square shape more than other shape. His eyes sparkle with liveliness.


Even when he is in love, he is still a free wild bird. He is sand in your palm, the more you want to hold it, it will slip out. If you stand and hold it still, it will stay that way. Don't set the rules and draw a line or him, he will not stay.


When you are with him, he will think only of you. But an hour later he could change his mind. He is very patient with other people, but very impatient with himself. His world always turning and it will not stop just because he loves you. If he upsets, he will show it right away. If something has gone wrong, he will blame his own carelessness instead of blaming other people.

He sincere to his friends even to some friends he does not like. He likes to do odd things and surprise other people. He could be fully dress in a nice suit and jump in the pool. He could slap your back so hard just to make you turn around to see he has flowers in his hand. He never wants to get too close with anyone for he thinks living in reality is living by yourself.

He does not care what people think when he behaves weird. He could be walking bare feet and laughing at people who laugh at him and think they are so narrow minded. He does not likes to follow conformity, but always want to search for new ventures, new mystery. He will interest in a life of a millionaire as much as a life of an old man selling newspaper on a sidewalk vendor.

He likes to search and analyze people and things. He will analyze his friends or his girlfriend, and once the mystery is gone, he will search for new puzzle to solve. He can not easily understand thing, so he will gradually learning about you till he fills up all his questions.

He knows so many people, but he has a few friends. He looks for quality friends than quantity friends. He will be close with some friends shortly and move on. He always feel lonely even surround by many people. He could create his own little world, and sometimes no one would understand him. He looks only for future and he thinks he lives for the future. He may wonder how many people think like he does, but he does not want to be like the
others.

A man with a conflict personality. He is a cool, understanding, and able to work well, and very artistic. Taurus man could be an artist. He could shock you as much as he is able to clam you down when you up set. He is a free spirit who likes venture, but when he wants to be alone, do not touch him but to let him be. He won't disappear from the crowds too long, he will be back.

He will give you straight forward opinion or comments, but will never advice what he thinks you should do. He does not like people to tell him what he should do too. He thinks each individual dreams and thoughts should be very private. He will use his brain not his body strength, so he will let other guys compete. He has a certain satisfactory in life and hate to force himself in competition. He may seem careless, but actually he is a thinker and a stubborn one.

He sees anythings in details and not easily trusted people till he thinks he knows them well. You can just smile and he will think why and what are you smiling about, and if you are pretending. Once he trust you and accept you as a friend, no one can says other wise to change that for he will not listen to gossip. He will be honest and sincere to his friends.

He hates lies, so he will not tell you lies. If he finds it is necessary to lie, he will find other ways not to tell you or avoid telling you anything. If he really has to lie, you will never be able to tell that he is lying. He can really keep secrets, so you will hardly know that he is a lonely soul.

If you want this kind of guy, you have to be an interesting person.
He has to be curious about you. Hell for him is "No Freedom", so if he marry you then you should know it is the biggest decision in his life. Always be interesting, then you could have him beside you.

AQUARIUS WOMAN
If you are in love with a woman in this zodiac be prepared to be very happy or be very sorry. She is a very busy person with her own matters similar to a guy in this zodiac. She is able to live by herself without any guy in her life, a very strong person indeed.

Not because she does not have a dream guy, but if she can not find such person, so what. Because she thinks she could do anything that a man can do. She is a leader, a real confident type.

She likes to do things by herself, such as serving herself, opening the door herself. Because she thinks waiting for a helping hand is a waste of time, and she is not patient enough to wait around for that. If she starts to ask you out, do not think she starts to flirt with you, but because she thinks it is a waste of time to wait for you to be the one who asked.

She likes a COOL guy who sometime act like he is ignoring her, so he has a chance to show him his own confident. She likes to guess her man's reaction, but at the same time she likes to have many men wanting her. She is a daring type who could just do thing differently from other people in her same society. She dares to fight for what she thinks belonged to her.
Even she acts confident she mostly feels lonely and alone. If she breaks up with someone, she won't show any emotion even deep down inside pain and agony. Not for long she will come back to be the cheery and merry person again, because she looks at the world positively and has "Faith" in the word "Love".

She has more men friends than women friends, so do not be a jealous type if you date her. She could be slightly jealous, but she hates jealous guy. She loves "Freedom" so before and after marriage, her freedom has to be the same. She likes you to trust her, even if she does not trust you anyhow.

She likes to be the one who is "Right", so if you argue with her , let her win if it is not a big deal for you in that subject. She is a straight forward type, so if she does not love you anymore, she will just tell you straight to your face. Her love and relationship are always real, so if she say "It's over" be prepare to leave, she is not testing you.


She is not a vulnerable type, so do not have to worry about her, she will survive by herself. If she is with you when you get sick, she will certainly take care and look after you, even look after you mean "small loan". Do not have secret with her, she hates it and really can piss her badly. When she is sad, be understanding. When she is happy, be happy with her, she likes that.

You will not get bore with this type of girl. Someone who is close to her will know that deep down beneath that confident and cold hearted person, she is just as fragile as any woman. She is a fun and talkative person and she likes to tease you. Do not let she talk alone, if you do she will leave.

She has many type of jobs because she beliefs what a man can do, I can do. If you want her to work for you, forget it. When she is in love, she will just leave her job in the day time just to come to see you, but not for long she will go back to work seriously again. Prepare to live and love with a "Working Woman" then you will be OK.

If she mad, find a shelter for the "Hurricane" is here! Her bad temper will last very shortly though. She is not a revenge type and will not think of "pay Back" time. Most people might think of her as "One of a guy", but in fact she is a 100% woman. She is easily hurt, so be nice with her. If she really loves you, then you are lucky because she is an honest, truthful and will never bored you. Understand that sometimes she will be over confident and sometimes like to have power or act bossy.

Thursday, May 24, 2007

执子之手,与子偕老

执子之手,与子偕老

击鼓其镗,踊跃用兵。土国城漕,我独南行。
从孙子仲,平陈与宋。不我以归,忧心有忡。
爰居爰处?爰丧其马?于以求之?于林之下。
死生契阔,与子成说。执子之手,与子偕老。
于嗟阔兮,不我活兮。于嗟洵兮,不我信兮。

[译文]
击鼓声镗镗(震于耳旁),(将士们)奋勇演练着刀枪。土墙和漕城修筑正忙,惟有我随军远征到南方。
跟随孙子仲(行旅奔波),平定(作乱的)陈、宋二国,回家的心愿得不到允可,心中郁郁忧愁不乐,
(我却)身在何方,身处何地?我的马儿丢失在哪里?到哪里(才能)将它寻觅?到那(山间的)林泉之地。
生生死死离离合合,(无论如何)我与你说过。与你的双手交相执握,伴着你一起垂垂老去。
可叹如今散落天涯,怕有生之年难回家乡。可叹如今天各一方,令我的信约竟成了空话。

我很喜欢这句爱情誓言。
它来之一首诗。
是长年行役于外的将兵思念家乡和妻子。
背景不美,诗里没提到结局。
可是我相信, 将兵一定会回到妻子生边实现他的承诺。

现代已经没有将兵, 没有家乡。
“执子之手,与子偕老” 有的是新的解意。

没有太多的轰轰烈烈惊天动地,有的是像流水一样绵延不断的感觉。
没有太多的海誓山盟花前月下,有的是相对无言眼波如流的默契。

有一双属于你的双手,它们紧紧地握住你,
陪你走过所有的阴天和所有的艳阳天,一生一世。

这左右手从年轻执到老,
有时会因为右手的顽皮而被左手打。
左手固执时,右手轻拍提醒。
不论遇到任何风雨, 从不轻言放开。

到了白发斑斑,
你的左手旁边永远是我的右手。
你的右手旁边永远是我的左手。
这两双手永远属于对方。

The day where two lines met and continues on a single path

Our paths found each other

Went to Café del Mar on 23 May to celebrate the date we met each other 3 years ago. Hear alot about Café del Mar, romantic and nice....Hmmm... a bit over rated I guess. Hahah... the food is quite good, high-class looking and come with a "high class" price too. Its a nice experience but definetly not worth the price. Atmosphere wise is also over rated. The beach seats were wet. It does look romantic under the setting, but definetly not romantic to sit on the wet sponge and soak your pants. Hahah. Not a good rating on this place, but I am glad we spend this special evening together. He bought me a bouquet of pink roses, saying that its a make up for the missing flower on proposal... Hahah... there are more meanings to this flower, but he put it in simple words...hahha... I did mention onces that I like champagne rose over a tv drama, pinkish white. These roses are over intoxicated with pink... hahah...It doesnt matter how pink the roses are, what matter most to me is the effort to remember and the effort to show the love. Sometimes woman is the same like man, they like to be told in direct meaning. :) The evening was relaxed, light sea brezze, not so much of a romantic feeling, more of a date feeling, chill out. Although simple, it gave a feeling of smooth water run long.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Enchanting Getaway, 512 proposal

 
Eternal Promise
It was a birthday celebration for him. First time on cruise for him and he was especially excited for this trip. We arrived at harbourfront in the afternoon, all ready for the trip! We boarded the ship at 6pm, just nice for the nice evening sun. We went to the "titanic" stand, it was really at the tip front of the ship!

We had our dinner and went to the top deck, can't wait to see the ship set sailing! We went to the "galaxy of star" for a drink. As he wanted a "Love Me" by Collin rayes delication, I secretly write a note on the delications:

Happy Birthday to my dearest Nick and love you always!

He was quite surpise to hear the message from the singer. Although they cant really sing the song well, I m sure he is happy with the arrangement. He kept saying that he will make me more "paisei"... hmmm I dun really get wat he was trying to say at that moment... As the clock was going to strike 12 midnight, we were having supper and I litted a candle on a small piece of brownie and sang him a birthday song!

As the night turn dark, shiny stars are all over the sky. But he keep saying that is not a lot of stars. There are 2 main things I wanted to do on this cruise, 1 is to take photo at the "titanic" point - mission done. And another one is Sunrise!

As the alarm goes off at 6.00 am. I wake him up at 6.15am and thought the usual lazy pig would nuai in bed and cant get his butt off the bed. Who knows, he jumped off the bed and tell me, "dun waste, we already here, must see sunrise" Surprise, surprise.... Hahahha...

We reached the deck at 6.30am. Can't see any yellow york, all we see is the semi bright skyline. It was already very beautiful! Suddenly, he get quite sentimentals with his words. "We have know each other for coming 3 years, and we have been though happy and sad moment. ..." I chipped in and say, "more happy times than unhappy and why u get so emotional"...
My tears uncontrollably rolled out from the corner of my eyes when I saw him reached for his pocket!... He continued, "and I want to continue with u for the rest of my life." He kneel down and bring out the ring, "Will you marry me?" My tears could no longer hold, it was terribly touching moment! I said "YES!" and he put on the ring on my finger. We held each other in eternal hug! I said "Yes, I do and I will always love you!", the eternal promised is sealed with a kiss! It was a dream proposal of my life.

Just as we were emersed in the sea of love, we saw the bright yellow york rise up from the sea! It was a perfect scenery! I was jumping in delight! Thank you for making it so special.As I was still in the state of dreamy...he continued, " I did not choose this date because of my birthday, because its 512, which means I LOVE U"...these words really touched me down to the depth of my heart!  I will never forget this special day!

The rest of the day was spend in happy mood, of course! Hahaha... We received a birthday cake from the cruise management. No birthday song this time, but a nice chocolate birthday cake! We went for jacuzzi and it was too hot under the sun, we took a nice shower and went for the bbq buffet. After the dinner, we enjoy the nice and romantic sunset which cant stop me from remising on the surpise proposal in the morning. We seat ourself under the moonlight and talk abt our plans and future with chilling beer, nice music and breezy wind. The night was ending with chill out in the bar, a topless show that make him doze off..hahha...

It was the day to go back home sweet home. I could see the morning sun from our room. The sleepy head can't open his eyes wide to view it with me. Not the same from the day earlier..hahah...cos he has completed his mission already! Hahahah....

I can't describe fully in words....but its a kind of stable feeling... before I said YES... although we already took the bridal photos, everything were already arranged... the feeling of going to be Mrs Tan was'nt that strong.... Looking at the ring, it has a deeper meaning than just a ring. Its more than just the process of going to be Mrs Tan. I feel a deeper meaning to that. It as a eternal promise deep in the heart of the diamond.

 

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