Last year, he made no plans for vday too... in the end I brought him to a korean bbq off westcoast road for dinner... no presents exchange also... hahahaha... Every year, my bday is the only time he take effort to plan something.... Never receive flower from him on vday...his reason is, Bday give u liao...hahah... true enough, my bday is too near to vday...
This year, Nick volunteer to think of a dinning place for vday... I am more than happy to hear that.... hahahah...
He spend the eve of vday playing psp and I sleep early... but we manage to wish each other Happy Valentine Day when the clock strike 12 and he was about to save his game and go to bed.... hahahah....
On Vday, its working as usual, about 10 plus in the morning, I got a call from the reception. I got a bouquet of flower! hahahah!!! So happy that I got my 1st valentine bouquet from Nick. I took a photo and sms him with thanks. He replied "Dun mention".... wat a way to reply your wife thanks rite? Hahahah... I send him another pict... it was a gift I had prepared for him... He din expect any present from me... so this get him "xin yang yang" for the rest of the day!
We met afterwork and the 1st thing he do is look for his present!...I made him guess and his 1st answer is Shirt...*teh*.. wrong.... My phone ring and when I was on the phone when he faster open his present... cant wait to see! Hahahah...
We went to this porridge place in Kallang Indoor stadium as per Nick planned. He said its recommended by his colleague and this resturant is going to close soon. He said "Pai sei lei... bring u eat porridge" I am fine with it... he say "Ya CNY we eat too much goodies liao mar"...hahaha...
We ordered a stew pork meat... fatty and nice.... damm yummy... although really very fatty... very nice lei.... the oyster in the oyster egg are big too... worth the value... its 8 bucks... and we had a abalone mushroom vege... The porridge is refillable... inside got "han zi" aks sweet potato... Nice! I was joking that this is teochew mui meh.... "han zi ber" is usually hokkien one lei... so conclusion... its taiwan porridge dun care teochew or hokkien....hahahah... this porridge is not cheap... 3 dishes and 2 porridge, total damage abt 40 bucks! But the food is nice!
We bumped into a fred's sis and her bf.... we chatted till 11pm then left that place...hahaha
Back home, we saw the letter from the institute.... Nick got enrolled into the course! Finally this uncle is going to do his study. Hahahah.... Uncle! time to pack your pencil case and school bag liao! :P
He was joking saying that I can wait for him after school cos now got PSP to keep me occupied while waiting... I told him, dun worry, I am good at finding my own activities. Hahahah!
5 comments:
very ex porridge hehe...
at least he still makes the effort to send the flowers to your workplace. DH finds that vday is an expensive day, waste $$$!
while my colleagues, single or married, are receiving flowers, cards & gifts from their partner, this is just any other thurs to me. DH working late(maybe to avoid vday?)
bought him half dozen new sock. instead appreciating, asked me why i buy him present? want to make him guilty of not planning anything isit? told him his siblings went jack's place for candle light dinner. he said it's a waste of time & $$$. i'm not angry, just jealous. but self-consoling, there are ppl out there who haven found their true happiness.
i was rather tired, but was waiting for the 3 words(the last time he said to me was erm.....v v long ago), he said i so childish! no dinner, flowers or present angry liao..........sigh..........guess i "spoilt" him bad. for the past 9 years, every vday, bday, anniversary & xmas, i plan, we go dutch. he had been having an easy time just waiting for the day to come & enjoy. tired leh..........but many times, he happy can liao lor...........
The greatest love is wat you can do for your loved one....
Of course relationship is a double way traffic...cannot be always 1 side nia...
There are many ways of showing concern and love for one... one may have their own way of showing appreciation in daily life activities... its like fixed salary.... when special occassion come....flowers, gifts are like bonous.... and the sad thing is, bonous is not fixed and it does not come every now and then de....hahahah
Maybe your hubby is not good at expressing himself.... but that does not mean he dun appreciate you...I always feel that marriage is something that need to be managed.... fire and sparks will not be there as if godsend.... it need to be created.... and mostly its the ger who is more into this....hahahha... thats why woman are created to be more clever than man! Cos we use our brain regularly :P
yeah,i also "explain" for him to myself that maybe he dunno know how to express(really wonder how he managed to win my heart from my ex...........hahaha) but towards his mum, he shows his love, care & concern very obvious. He really hold her hands, hug her, etc........which he never since we got married.
i'm trying to create & maintain the sparks like before we got married but, like you said, it's 1 way traffic lor........
woh! He so big still hug his mum, hold her hand ar! Surprising lei... next time he do that, u run up to him and say "我也要!!!" Hahahaha....
I think most man will feel that once reach "stable" rs... these kind of things like hand hand, sweet talk, hugging are minor stuffs... but we should voice out onces in a while... so that they still remember not to take things for granted....hahahah... but I understand its always easier said than done, rite?
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