Some ppl is just not deserved to be well treated

From day 1 when I interview my maid at the agency I already tell her strictly no hp allow! The agency advise not to let her make phone call within the 1st 3 months. I see that she take care of the baby well, so I allow her to call home. I even pay for her 1st phone card. After she is allow to call home, she ask for permission to give the phone number to her family cos they might need to contact her, which I agreed. The next thing u see is her mother keep calling her, her relatives start calling some whom she din even know who they are! I ask her how come they got the number, she say her mum gave the number. I tell her she should let her mum know that she should not do so. I din even tell her off.

After a while, she ask if her mum can send over a hp which contains picture and video of her son. I ask why u need the hp. U can ask your mother to send photo. She say video and photo not the same. I did not agree. The photo of her son come though....

During the days I am at work, she will be at my mum place with baby. That is where she have all her phone call. I heard from my mum that sometimes her family call, she can talk on the phone non stop for 1 hour! I already say, no phone call during the day as I wanted her full attention on the child. They can call in the evening time. I let this matter rest as I feel that as long as she take care of the child well.. such things I can choose to close my eyes.

For the short 7 months here, she follow us to 2 holidays. I paid for her expenses and after every trip she end up like dead hog, I have to clean and pack the stuff... I never let her finish all the tasks. I see that her clothes are old and I bought her new clothes. She din even have to fork a single cent when staying with us. We bring her out whenever we bring baby out during weekend.

Even the weekend when we are at home, I will help to finish the household chores. I have planned a time table for her to follow, but she never did. I reminded her that floor at my mum place has to be mop like 3 times a week, she only mop twice. I reminded that baby mattress cover to have iron cos she has allergy, she only iron for a few months and now not at all. I reminded that cover to have change twice a week, now she only change once a week. All these I can still live with it.

At my own place, she did not follow what I requested as well.. I can live with it. Her daily schedule is Morning wake up at 5.30, clean herself then baby wake up at 6 where she will clean up baby and get ready to go my mum place. I prepared my own breakfast. At my mum place she only wash baby stuffs like clothes and milk bottles. Sometimes she help with ironing of clothes and simple cleaning. My mum's kitchen is quite messy, plastic bag all over the place. I only see her pack 1 time when she 1st come and I requested so... other than that she never pack, the cabinets never wipe.

Then whole day she just take care of the baby, cook baby food, clean up baby. When baby sleep, she bath and watch TV. In the evening time, she followed us back home with the baby, clean up baby while I bath. Then I will coax baby to sleep. She dun even have to make baby sleep. She is practically free at 8 plus. I seldom ask her to do work in the evening. Thinking that its quite tiring in the day time to take care of the baby. During weekends, I even let her sleep late, though baby wake up around the same timing, I will wake up to take care of baby...But all these she never appreciate!

Last evening, she tell her after 2 more month, her loan with the agency (getting full month pay). Previously during CNY, her ang bao money amount to 150 bucks, we give it to her and she TT back to her mother. From then till now, what she want to buy, I pay for her. But she is not contented... now that she is getting her full pay soon, she want to buy a hp! I ask her, U forget that the 1st thing when I interview u, what I say? She say yes, she rem but she want to get permission to buy... and please!....with tears like going to come out....

I ask her why she needed the hp, she say at night she cannot sleep, boring... can communicate with her family via SMS! I tell her I let u rest early so that day time u not tired... I also know day time taking care of the baby is tiring that is why I let u rest early! U boring cannot sleep u do house work loh! I ask her, u got see b4 that maid work non stop till late late then next morning still have to wake up early one? 

I ask her why u wanna spend the money where not as if I dun allow u to call home! I allow her to use the house phone when her family call, also let her call home using the card. She tell me something diff to say over phone! Woh lau! She need to type to communicate! 

I tell her, u think phone and phone card very cheap? 1 sms to your family is 50 cents, 1 sms receive is 50 cents, U can control meh... if they keep sms u.... U pay and pay... if u think u wanna spend all these money then u should not be working. Why u come here to work? Is to earn money, if you dun save now, how u going to buy things back? (because she always ask me how much is this and that, she wanna buy back. My house got the ikea pots for $14 she also wanna buy to keep and bring back)
I tell her, since u got another 2 more months, u go and think abt it 1st then we talk again. She ask me, if after 2 more months she still want the hp and WILLING to pay... will I allow her. She is pressing me for an answer. I HATE IT WHEN PPL FORCE ME TO THE WALL.... I tell her we will talk again in 2 months time.

My blood is boiling and yet I cannot release... thinking that given her stubborn character, if I say NO right away, she might be revengeful and take it upon the baby. I cannot quit my job and stay at home. Thus I have to be under her mercy! and I hate this. At work I have to take all the nonsense and back home I have to take her nonsense.

These kind of ppl, they dun know wat is good... I try to be the nice MDM who give her almost all freedom. When we are out there, she can go and talk to other maid, which I never stop her. What she ask for I buy for her... btw, she dun even need to cook. Lao Niang cook for the family and her. She can even tell me, I like this food and that food. 

Lao Niang too good liao... ppl dun know how to appreciate. She haven see how nasty I can be... these ppl huh, they do all these nonsense and cannot blame why the Mdm is so nasty and make them work like shit... cos if u dun make them work, they tell u they boring... cannot sleep... need HP to sms. CRAZY!

I was damm pissed that I couldn't sleep well last night and I am not feeling sleepy now... cos my blood is still boiling like mad! Now I can truly understand why a lot of people say, U cannot treat this kind of people good one... cos they no brain think... I thought it was quite nasty ... but now I no longer do.