Now she ask for milk all the time but its in the middle of the night! She will have her last feed at 9pm then wake up at 12 to 1 for milk milk... then 3 to 4 for milk milk then 6 for milk milk... Most of the time she cannot finish the the feed into morning. And all these happen when she is asleep! The minute she is awake in the morning, she refused milk. She will say "No No" to milk... During the weekend at home, no way she will drink her milk at all during the day time!
I dun have a solution to this... I search the web and i found that its common in toddler and some suggestion such as ignoring or diluting the milk so that they wont wake up for milk anymore... other suggestion such as offer water instead...
I tried the ignoring and offer water method... its din really work... she will scream and cry for a good 30min to 1 hour then sleep and within the next 2 hour she ask for milk again... she will cry as if she is terribly hungry....
Last night she drink her milk (add brown rice some more) at 9pm then at 11.30 she ask for milk I simply refuse... she cried for about 30 minute and at 4.30am she woke up for milk she cry marmee then I ignored... she cried "ka ka" (the maid).... then I say "U want daddy make milk?" she cry "daddy" ... we make the milk and ask daddy to give her... This morning I ask her, who make milk for u last night? She replied "marmee" I say No... its daddy... then she repeat "daddy"... Omg lar... is she dreaming asking for milk or really hungry for milk?
I also dun know how lei.... it is like coupled with her night terror... my mil suggest wearing the clothes inside out... I tried... it din work... hahahahha
Then last weekend even best... sat night she cried very hard... then Sunday morning my maid ask her, why u cry... she replied "marmee kick' the maid ask kick where? she point to her right leg!
I asked her, who kick u? She say "marmee"... I ask where? she pointed her right leg... when nick returned home in the afternoon he ask the same thing and got the same response... we dun think she understand that its just a dream...
I actually "admit" to doing it and tell her "marmee sayang"... and kiss her leg to "make up" for my "mistake"... *faint
This morning she point to her leg and say "poke" then the maid ask her who poke u? she say "marmee" aiyo.... when did I poke her???? I choose to ignore this time...
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how is she with the solid food??
Maybe it's just a cycle...Bryan used to refuse milk but we forced him to drink :P esp. when i was still breastfeeding, every drop is precious! hahaa
haha, the nightmare thingy is so funny..
for denson, he was okie after that day wen i met u.. but we need to sleep close to him so that he can feel (literally touch) us when he sleep to make sure that i am around. n then he will not make noise at night.
kinda of insecured feeling bah..
Wah Charlotte cry daddy cry marmee huh lol
She is good with solid food... For the past 2 nights we just keep telling her that after her last feed of milk no more milk at night... It's dark so sleeping... Morning bright then brink milk again... She nod and say ok...
But middle of the night she will scream and ask for milk... Based on ytd night experience I m even more firm that the ask for milk act is related to her night terror... She cry and scream for milk, when I say no she cry even louder... So I ask her to follow me... Walk from her bed... Then I wet the handkerchief from the toilet and wipeher face and hand.. She woke up a bit... Then I distract her that her hand is red... Now ok... Let's go to bed... She returnto bed and sleep... But I was awake for abt 30min cos I can't go back to sleep easily :(
Joyce I think the insecure part is one of the reason also because when she cry mummy and I say I sleep with u then she feel the presence then she quiet down... But like this my body ache lar... Move up and down her bed... Hahaha!
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