This has been going on since she started her cc.... the weird thing is when her daddy fetch her from school back home for dinner she behave well and willing to walk on her own, play around... but when she see mummy face... its like ice cream see sun! Total Meltdown!... Mummy also wanna cry liao.... No chance of resting... she will cry "mummy mummy" when when I am bathing! There are a few times I just ask her "can u let mummy go and drink water?" " Can u let mummy bath, I am smelly..." She will just shook her head and say "No No!"... Sometimes I just give up, sit there with the clinging child and refuse to move... when she say "there" and cry... I just reply " No no... mummy dun want to go" then she cry even louder... then after she scream and cry until she is really tired... I will offer water or something else....
This is just part of the whole sticky and clinging episode... her night terror is still here and worsen with her going to school... every night.... I already lost count for how long.... It just happen every night whereby she will stand or sit on the bed to cry and want to carry and point to the door (she wants to go out)... I just ignore her request and sit there... she will cry and cry until she is tired and sometimes she just go on and on.... I also dun know what to do...
I am at my wits end and I just hope that this stupid night terror will go away! I think its causing all of us to lost sleep and when she does not rest well, her day time activities get affected and she gets really tired then her "bao bao" saga will come! I noticed over the weekend that she will only get cranky and wants bao bao when she gets really tired... seems like these 2 are like a vicious cycle!....
If only I know the solution to night terror.... :(
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I think its all part of the trabsition to school bah.. She misses u even more now..
Its really a transition period! Sadz to say nothing much we can do abt it...just pray hard that she will adapt to cc faster and slowly she will be less clingy to you. I went through exactly the same phrase as you previously..You will cry when the day came that she says: she dont want u ah! so enjoy and brace through the hard times :)
they will get through this stage i think. my colleague told me about her child being like this too...
omg... roughly how long will it last???? I sometimes got angry will just tell her, u cry again mummy go out liao... hahahahha....
It differs for each kid... :)
I hate it when she starts behaving like this,.... and u get so mad... Then when she is ok, she will smile and do cheeky stuffs which make u think how great can it be that she keep continue to behave so sweetly.... really emotion roller coaster...
This is juz another passing phase. Endure for few more wks & it will soon b over b4 u noe it. Of coz by den another pattern will "pop" up liao. Haha...juz like ur fren said, enjoy now while she still wanna bao bao u. Give another few more yrs & she will b wanting to get away from u. :p
I totally understd u!! For mi, I look on e bright side.. I will tell myself cos he is scare of something Tats y he needs mi to hug n carry him.. I will hug him tight n keep assuring him "mummy is here" so often that he can repeat after me ler..
Somehow w e reassuring, there is lesser night terrors too.. I try not to let him cry so much at nite, so tat it doesn't affect his sleep..
U can try to ask her wat's wrong, is she scare of sth.. Sometimes she just need u to b ard w her..
Denson will request for me to sit down together w him to watch his forever playing cartoon shows.. Wen I sit w him, I can tell, he is enjoying e show even better.. Just hav to b there.. N I always tell myself at least I m glad I am e one he preferred..
Smiles, tink on e bright side n hang on there!!
thanks gals! I feel much better knowing I am not alone..... I will try to be nice (cos sometimes I just ignore her cry :P) and hope that this night terror go away soon!
When shayna gets into her super sticky mode and cries whenever i am away or wouldnt let me bathe or pee etc, and i feel like i am going to lose my temper, i tell myself to appreciate all this cos when she grows up into a teenager, shes gonna wanna be with her friends and do her own things. Sure we might still be close with our daughters when they grow up but their 'wanting u' instinct wouldnt be as strong liao.
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